“The reflection of a man’s love can be seen on a woman’s face.”
—–That’s right, don’t fool yourself. If there’s something wrong with how he makes you feel, slow down. No matter how much love you have for this person , if there’s something wrong, SOMETHING IS WRONG. Don’t force yourself to fit in a piece of puzzle that’s not right for you, or it will hurt.
Love is very tricky. Sometimes it’s a battle between loving yourself or loving your someone. Especially when you’re not compatible in many ways. So much things to compromise. Sometimes you get lucky to find a person who will take the same journey with you.
How do you feel today? Do you feel like a machine that’s been kept away from your functions and your keys had been thrown away as soon as things got serious? Or let me guess, you are a machine that’s been overused and need some time for repair. The big question is…is it worth it?
If not, you better reconsider. Here are the reasons why you should leave, go on with your life and don’t ever go back, instead learn from all of it.
–your thoughts when busy, it reflects on your face, in your actions, in all your decisions. You get confused even on a simple question, “Where do you want to eat?”, “What do you want to do?” Theres only one person who can tell if you’re unhappy and it’s you. Don’t force yourself to stay because of your love for him. Relationships are not only based on romance. I believe they are what they are and you are what you are. If you try on someone’s size or someone’s style, big chances are you’re not happy with it or you break it, or worst.
2. ARE YOU BETTER ALONE?
— have you seen your photos lately? Carry on, scan your photos from your memory. Are you satisfied with how your living your life right now? Do you think you can do better than how you feel now? Is this temporary? If you know you’re gonna be more productive and effective as a person being out of the relationship, it’s a sign. When you don’t get the nutrients your body needs, you will get sick. Same in love, you don’t get all the affection you need. So, take a deep breathe. Tell your partner what’s lacking when he’s insensitive. It can work sometimes if he really cares about saving your relationship. If you’re partner knows you enough and cares enough about how you feel, he would know something’s up and he would ask what’s bothering you. Women have shallow happiness. There are two things they need in life, attention and affection. It comes with material things a stem of flower, date night, a new cook book, kisses on the cheek or go on trip. He’s the missing piece of your heart, remember? He should know the rhythm of your heart.
3. IS IT WORTH IT?
—there’s no more things to consider apart from all the time you both invested in it. Those ideal future plans you built together and the love only you understands. Your partner probably has another definition of love. It’s sickening to explain something simple to a person with a different language of love from time to time. If you’re willing to deal with the same shit everyday, go ahead. Keep holding on and hold tighter! You got to be all in or out. But if you’re in doubt most of the time about your future with him and you feel like you’re gonna be unhappy and in unhealthy relationship, red light. Let each other find the right person. It’s not easy because the person meant the world to you but you have to let go.
Every passing minute is a chance to turn your life around.–VANILLA SKY
Say yes to a happier you. It’s not wise to stay in a situation when you’re always in doubt.
Every lyrics from the song “All of me” by John legend made for his wife Chrissy Teigen is a sign of a passionate love. You could feel every word being sang was real. It’s based from real experiences and that’s what makes people like it because it hits. “…even when I lose, I’m winning”. How nice it is to have your own John Legend?
To men: Her win is also your victory. Her laughter’s your laughter. Your heart and soul reflects on her. If you win her heart, you win the world. Because a real King’s power is measured from his Queen’s smile.